May 2008

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When I was a sophomore at Manhattan Christian College, I thought it would be a kick to be a DJ on the campus radio station.  At the time this was a Christian college of about 300 students, so using the term radio station might evoke images that are more glamorous and high-tech than the reality.  We had one microphone, one turntable, a cart (cartridge) player for radio spots, and a chair.  Of all the equipment, the chair was the only thing that worked consistently, night after night.  By the way, I can’t tell you the wattage of our transmitter, but I can report that the signal of the mighty KMCC could reach most rooms in our two dormitories if all the stars were aligned.I pulled the late shift, so I was broadcasting for about two hours after campus curfew.  In those days, the dorms were locked at 10pm so you could say I had a captive audience.  That meant that several nights a week I was cooped up in a tiny room in Joliffe Hall, spinning records and talking to an audience that was theoretically as large as 300 or as small as, well one person — me.  No feedback loop, no call-in request line, just me broadcasting into the blind.

The one and only time I tested my audience size was the night I forget my dorm key.  In the last 10 minutes of my show, I “shouted out” to anyone in Johnson Hall, informing them of my plight and asking to be let in at midnight.  While I’d like to say I was greeted by dozens of my fellow dorm dwellers at the stroke of midnight, I was actually relieved to learn that one lone soul was listening that night who was willing to admit a forgetful wanna-be DJ.

Blogging can be sort of like broadcasting in the blind.  Without comments back, you don’t know if you’re writing to yourself (which isn’t all that bad) or if others are with tuned in. 

So here I sit at my blogging “microphone” and as you read this post, or any others at any time, please feel free to hit the “comment” link.  Profound thoughts or witty comments are strictly optional.  The more comments the merrier. 

Can you hear me now? 

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After a jumping out of the starting blocks quickly, my blogging got “blogged” down by life.  Three things, all good, have kept me from keeping current. 

Right after my last entry, I traveled back to the Detroit area for a special evening on behalf of Rochester College. 

Over 700 friends of this liberal arts college, with roots in the Churches of Christ, came together for the 37th Annual Partnership Dinner.  Because their new President, Rubel Shelly, is on our Provision Board of Directors and because we recently put together a major financing package for them, I was invited to represent our ministries at this event.  The evening was filled with positive energy for the future of the school, and plenty of obvious appreciation for our ministry partnership.  All in all it was well worth the time and effort to get there. 

The special guest speaker for the evening was Robin Roberts, co-host of ABC’s Good Morning America, and she did an exceptional job of connecting her story to the values and mission of this fine institution.  An added bonus was being able to attend church at Bristol Road Church of Christ in Flint, MI where Rubel speaks quite regularly.  Thanks for the hospitality to everyone at the church and Rochester College. 

The very next morning after my return flight, we kicked off one of our quarterly Provision board meetings.  This is a special time as we are going through a review and recommitment to core govenance policies and principles.  In the past, this process has been done internally, but this time we elected to enlist outside consulting help and chose to use Gary York and John Martin of LogicBoard.  This was session two of a four-meeting intensive series, so we are half way to our goal of a completely new set of governance documents. 

From that point until this moment, life has been a blur as we put on the final push to complete our home improvements.  With a wedding shower for A.J. and Tom this weekend, we’ve been provided with a perfect goal date for completion.  The last room to need floor covering was the bonus room upstairs.  Anyone who has ever handed over this kind of space to teenagers will be able to relate to the archeological work we had to do just to find the floor and four walls.  Getting everything out was more than a full day’s work, and then we were committed to repainting.  Mission accomplished by Sunday night for carpeting on Tuesday morning.  All that is left is sorting and re-stocking the shelves (which includes the ever-popular “keep-it-or-throw-it” game with two young adult children who live 50 and 2700 miles away).  Wish us luck!

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For most of the last century, task management has remained fairly predictable and boring after the radical introduction of the basic “to do” list.  Most of the books and programs until fairly recently were all about how to keep and update your lists.  Same program, different wrapper.

My Dad managed his personal and professional life with a shirt-pocket holder full of 3×5 cards and plenty of change for pay phone calls.  You can’t argue with success in time management, however it is achieved, but I’m so thankful to be living and working in a different environment. 

I’m glad to report that things have changed dramatically over the past few years, especially with the emergence of new paradigms — and a handful of technologies that support them. 

While I am no expert, I can say that I finally feel comfortable with my task and email management system, thanks to ”Total Workday Control” by Michael Linenberger. 

Before I say more about his approach, Read the rest of this entry »

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Today it was my pleasure to have lunch with the twin pillars of our growing Development Team.  Steven Robinson (R) has been with us as Director of Development since January 2, and recently joining him is Roy Mann (L) who serves as Sr. Major Gifts Officer.

We went to the new Bluewater Grill in the District and took along Marc Bigelow and Mel McGowan to round out the party.  Review to follow.

For those who don’t already know this, Steven is what you might call hyper-competitive.  He admits that once he actually cried when his grandmother beat him at checkers.  Friendly games with Grandma apparently turned into grudge matches from that point forward!  Read the rest of this entry »

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Of all the practically thankless jobs, being a Mom has to rank near the top.  Almost thankless because at least on this one day of the year, most Moms get some measure of thanks — even if only from a gifted writer at Hallmark. 

Given the fact that for 18 years (and often longer) they rig it so they always draw the short straw and stay up later, sacrifice more, sleep less, work harder, and worry more so that a little person can start out on a good footing, Moms deserve better than that.  The kicker is that kids don’t come with guarantees, so all that work is potentially to raise a juvenile delinquent, mass murderer, or (worst of all) a self-absorbed ingrate who forgets the endless sacrifices that made life possible in the first place.  God had choice words for such people, but I can’t say them in polite company.

This is my Mom, making sure that I was raised to hear about God and His Son, Jesus.  Not just by taking me to a revival when I was 5 months old (I’m told I was less than attentive when the sermon went beyond three points and a poem), but by modeling the complete and unconditional love of God everyday of my life.  Now that’s a sermon people pay attention to.  That’s what changes lives.

There’s a reason Steve and I are smiling so big.  We were two boys who had every reason to thank God for the Mom we got, and now most days are spent trying to live up to her example of godliness and care for others.  On this Mother’s Day, I don’t want Hallmark to do my work for me. 

Thank you, Mom, for being God’s hands–serving, life-saving, heart-shaping hands–in my life.  I am forever grateful and will always be in your debt.  At age 54 I’m still smiling when I think of you.  You’re the best.

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Today we concluded Session One of Church Development Fund’s Strategic Planning effort for 2008.  Because four of the eleven participants were from other parts of the country, I took the opportunity to round them up at lunch.  The only downside for them was that this Lunch Bunch outing was an “in-ing” since we were eating catered box lunches in the hotel lobby.  No restaurant review available or needed for the cold sandwich, chips and cookie combo that was provided.

Meet Chris Bury (L) and Tim Stephens (R).  Chris handles all things real estate-related for CDF, working out of the Colorado Springs office.  While he would prefer that I not share all the embarassing details, his first date with his wife came as the result of a bet.  Based on the outcome, I’d say they both won.  Even though he isn’t that old, he has packed in a lot of experiences, including working in the entertainment industry in talent management and production.  You may have heard of American Idol.  His agency managed Paula Abdul and worked on production of the first season.  He also worked with Jimmy Kimmel on several projects, including the “Man Show.”  Who knew?  Not me.

Everything about Tim Stephens’ pre-CDF life was about the church — growing up in church, serving churches, and meeting his wife while working as a neophyte youth minister in one.  The unexpected twist was that Amy was a high school freshman when he first met her.  Before you call the authorities, they didn’t date until several years later which simply means that Tim was willing to wait for a good thing.  Good thing!.  Tim’s past includes church planting, which continues to be a passion for him in his role as CDF’s Relationship Manager in the Southeast US, based in Atlanta.

While we’re on the theme of how guys met their spouses, Jeff Frankowski (R) told us he married a real drama queen (not his words, exactly).  But it is true that his Queen-to-be was in drama, as was he.  They met while appearing in the college production of “Grease” where they were cast as the on-stage couple of Sonny and Marty.  When the curtain went down of the final production, the curtain went up on their budding relationship.  Jeff is Regional Director of Construction Cost Managment for CDF living in Mesa, AZ where he a worship team & core team member of Spring of Life Christian Church.

Tom Warner (L) wasn’t sure he had anything to share, but boy was he wrong.  You think you know someone, and then he reveals that his major at Johnson Bible College was music – with his special focus on the organ.   When we asked him how that worked out for him, he was quick to acknowledge that the call for church organists has slumped somewhat over the last, say, three decades.  Good thing he has his day job as Relationship Manager for CDF throughout the Midwest, based in the Indianapolis office. 

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In the best tradition of the Mexican holiday, my three amigos and I celebrated Cinco de Mayo at none other than Panera Bread.  Our wandering photographer got a D- on his first outing, as you can see.  A little known fact is that Doug Crozier was actually Wilson on “Home Improvement” (even to the point of hiding his face behind random, rapidly moving strangers).

The inaugural Lunch Bunch outing would have looked just like another lunch with Doug, Tom and our newest employee, until I announced my intent to post their pictures and some little known tidbit about each of them.  At that point, they knew there really is no such thing as a free lunch, and here is what they coughed up.

  • Tom McGlinchey was a professional artist in his youth.  His art class in elementary school actually sold pictures in front of the grocery store, and his work was snatched up by the locals with an eye for fine art.  This was during his pastels and watercolor period, and with a little prodding I’m sure he’ll be glad to do your caricature for $15 (plus the customary gratuity).
  • Doug Crozier revealed that during high school he competed (not once, but twice) in the state conference track meet.  His events were high jump, triple jump and the 2nd leg of the 440 yard relay.  As I think back, he never told us how he performed, so you’ll have to ask him directly for the Guiness record-worthy stats.
  • Jonathan Nebot had no trouble telling me something that no one would know, because he is brand new to Provision.  He is the new Sr. Financial Analyst reporting to Tom McGlinchey, coming to us from Fremont Investment and Loan.  What he did share was that he is well on his way to completing a work of fiction in his spare time.  Seems he writes when he has nothing else to do, and that has gotten him up to 500 pages! 

REVIEW OF PANERA:  Healthier version of Corner Bakery, with great soup, salad and sandwich choices.  Three thumbs up, however Jonathan wanted to be sure everyone knows that there are no refills on lemonade. 

 

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When I began with Church Development Fund in 1993, getting to know everyone was no big task.  Pull up a chair in the lunchroom, and you were instantly networked to the entire company — all 8 of us!

(L to R) Nedra McShane, Bill Broder, Ginny Ohm, Larry Winger, Brad Dupray, Lynn MacIntosh, Bob Bell, Lynn White.

Now, nearly 15 years later, keeping up with the growing team has become a task that requires more intentionality.  One company has grown to four, and that staff of seven has expanded to 106 in eleven different states. 

This weblog chronicles my attempt to pull my chair up to as many tables, in as many places, as it takes to connect with every member of the Provision Ministry Group family in the course of the coming year.  Here’s the plan.

Every week or so I’ll grab a random assortment of Provisioneers* and we’ll enjoy a meal together.  Just like on the very best cruise ships, a wandering photographer will capture the moment for posterity.  Along with those pictures, I’ll post some trivial tidbits that you would never know without reading this blog.  

BTW, no two groups will go to the same restaurants, and with the help of my lunch companions, we’ll even provide a short restaurant review with recommendations (and warnings, as needed). 

Bon appetit as together we enjoy each other’s Good Company!

 

* DEFINITION: Provisioneer (n). anyone employed by Provision or a ministry partner.

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Nearly four years ago, A.J (our daughter) spent her sophomore year at Pepperdine studying abroad in Heidelberg, Germany.  Not only did she get a great educational experience, but she ended up meeting the young man who proposed to her on December 18.  Not surprisingly to us, they chose to be married where they first met…in Heidelberg on the castle grounds. 

Wedding preparation is a juggernaut, crushing everything in its path unless you can outrun it.  This weekend we were in full-sprint mode, helping them with design and production of handcrafted wedding invitations, including engagement picture photography and mailing preparation.  Whew. 

The only thing we didn’t have to do was any retouching in Photoshop.  This couple is just naturally photogenic, and pre-wedding happiness always photographs well.  We’re happy for them and excited to have Tom in our family…officially.

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When you set out to build an airplane in your garage, you can’t just measure its cost in sheet aluminum, rivets, an engine and gauges.  If you are wise, you’ll factor in something for the inevitable ”how-could-you-possibly-say-no-when-you-are-building-an-airplane-in-our-garage” projects that will come your way.  And you know, it’s hard to knock holes in that logic.

For our family, it has meant the replacement of everything we walk on — both inside and out.  First the lawn got ripped out and new sod put down. 

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Then it was pulling out the carpet in our guest bath (yes, the previous owners had carpet in the bathrooms) and putting in limestone tile by hand.  By that point, the camel’s nose was in the tent, and the final, world-class “honey do” was revealed last month.  “Since you’re building a plane in the garage, can’t we get rid of that old carpet, tile and sheet vinyl in the rest of the house?”  How could I say no?  Even if I wanted to.

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By the time you unhook every electronic doodad, unload every bookshelf, move every piece of furniture in the house…only to reverse the process several days later, some would argue you might as well move.   Not me.  At least my airplane project is resting comfortably surrounded by all my tools that never got touched once during the process.  That’s one thing I don’t plan to move until the day it takes a trip to the local airport.

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